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		<title>By: redneckprincess</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2007/11/13/would-it-be-so-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-3578</link>
		<dc:creator>redneckprincess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Nov 2007 23:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As Laura says &quot;I think because so many people are so busy with work, kids, home, and family these days, it’s all too easy to cave in to the number of lifestyle conveniences our society has to offer. Don’t have time to cook a healthy balanced meal? Order a pizza. No time to walk/ride your bike to the store? Just drive.&quot;  

This obviously adds to the weight issue in our country, but also I believe that money has a lot to do with that.  What costs the most in the store?  Fruits, Veggies, and other good for you foods.  The least?  potato chips, frozen pizza etc. . .As a single mom living on a small income, money is a big factor in what I serve my 7 year old son. . .that said, fruits and veggies are important and are on our table, but when I buy somthing for just myself for lunch--cheap is the way I go and almost always ends up being not healthy.  

I agree that women should just speak up and say &quot;Hey, it&#039;s hard to have a body like mine, but it&#039;s important to me&quot;  we as women would cheer them for it and young girls looking at them on tv, the net and in magazines would maybe hear the message and be less body obsessed and their may be less instances of anorexia, cutting, suicide and other horrible things young girls do to themselves today. . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As Laura says &#8220;I think because so many people are so busy with work, kids, home, and family these days, it’s all too easy to cave in to the number of lifestyle conveniences our society has to offer. Don’t have time to cook a healthy balanced meal? Order a pizza. No time to walk/ride your bike to the store? Just drive.&#8221;  </p>
<p>This obviously adds to the weight issue in our country, but also I believe that money has a lot to do with that.  What costs the most in the store?  Fruits, Veggies, and other good for you foods.  The least?  potato chips, frozen pizza etc. . .As a single mom living on a small income, money is a big factor in what I serve my 7 year old son. . .that said, fruits and veggies are important and are on our table, but when I buy somthing for just myself for lunch&#8211;cheap is the way I go and almost always ends up being not healthy.  </p>
<p>I agree that women should just speak up and say &#8220;Hey, it&#8217;s hard to have a body like mine, but it&#8217;s important to me&#8221;  we as women would cheer them for it and young girls looking at them on tv, the net and in magazines would maybe hear the message and be less body obsessed and their may be less instances of anorexia, cutting, suicide and other horrible things young girls do to themselves today. . .</p>
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		<title>By: bluebird</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2007/11/13/would-it-be-so-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-3561</link>
		<dc:creator>bluebird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Nov 2007 10:52:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That, yes, other women can get abs like that if they are willing and able to work out for hours every single day. 

This is so true. I used to row competitively, which involves two intense trainings a day, like 2 hours each. And I never looked like that. I was fit as hell, and really thin, but I didn&#039;t look like that.
My point is, I know what loads of exercise is, and how it makes you look. And it&#039;s a long way short of how those women look.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That, yes, other women can get abs like that if they are willing and able to work out for hours every single day. </p>
<p>This is so true. I used to row competitively, which involves two intense trainings a day, like 2 hours each. And I never looked like that. I was fit as hell, and really thin, but I didn&#8217;t look like that.<br />
My point is, I know what loads of exercise is, and how it makes you look. And it&#8217;s a long way short of how those women look.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2007/11/13/would-it-be-so-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-3263</link>
		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2007 01:40:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bridey, I can certainly appreciate the sentiment that overweight people in American culture today take too much flack for it being &#039;their fault&#039; or the idea that the reason they&#039;re overweight is due to laziness, etc. But there is something to be said for the hard work it takes to counter all sorts of cultural cues encouraging a sedentary lifestyle, and generally weight gain as a result. I think because so many people are so busy with work, kids, home, and family these days, it&#039;s all too easy to cave in to the number of lifestyle conveniences our society has to offer. Don&#039;t have time to cook a healthy balanced meal? Order a pizza. No time to walk/ride your bike to the store? Just drive.

Being able to forego some of these conveniences in favor of doing some things the hard way or working gym time into an already packed schedule and achieving the desired result of a physically healthier body is something to be admired. And that makes it all the more aggravating when these celebrities don&#039;t own up to their hard work, especially when they have the ability to set aside time, money, and resources to do the work and look the way they do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bridey, I can certainly appreciate the sentiment that overweight people in American culture today take too much flack for it being &#8216;their fault&#8217; or the idea that the reason they&#8217;re overweight is due to laziness, etc. But there is something to be said for the hard work it takes to counter all sorts of cultural cues encouraging a sedentary lifestyle, and generally weight gain as a result. I think because so many people are so busy with work, kids, home, and family these days, it&#8217;s all too easy to cave in to the number of lifestyle conveniences our society has to offer. Don&#8217;t have time to cook a healthy balanced meal? Order a pizza. No time to walk/ride your bike to the store? Just drive.</p>
<p>Being able to forego some of these conveniences in favor of doing some things the hard way or working gym time into an already packed schedule and achieving the desired result of a physically healthier body is something to be admired. And that makes it all the more aggravating when these celebrities don&#8217;t own up to their hard work, especially when they have the ability to set aside time, money, and resources to do the work and look the way they do.</p>
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		<title>By: glamour-geek</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2007/11/13/would-it-be-so-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-3255</link>
		<dc:creator>glamour-geek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 23:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anyone else remember when Jamie Lee Curtis released the &quot;before&quot; and &quot;after&quot; photos of herself? The &quot;before&quot; was without makeup, lighting, posing, airbrushing, etc. The &quot;after&quot; was with the hair, makeup, lighting, posing, high heels, etc. Same dress in both photos. The industry was horrified that she &#039;fessed up to all that goes into those photos and the hours and people involved, but JLC wanted people to know she woke up looking like a regular person, too. I&#039;ve always admired her for putting herself (and her rep in the industry) out there and taking the risk of the backlash.

Last year, I lost 7% body fat (and no weight, ladies...just exchanged fat for muscle) in a 5-day-a-week hour-long women&#039;s bootcamp that I did for 4 months. Loved the results. For the first 2 weeks, I was exhausted and hurt everywhere. Well, I started a new job and I&#039;m back to square one. What did I gain: the knowledge of what it takes to get there and the confidence to know that if I want to put in the time and effort, even I can get the results. Never had results like that from a trainer, either... The best part was my triglycerides dropping like a rock, since it&#039;s a pre-indicator for diabetes, and my fasting glucose moderating. I have one adult-onset parent so it matters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anyone else remember when Jamie Lee Curtis released the &#8220;before&#8221; and &#8220;after&#8221; photos of herself? The &#8220;before&#8221; was without makeup, lighting, posing, airbrushing, etc. The &#8220;after&#8221; was with the hair, makeup, lighting, posing, high heels, etc. Same dress in both photos. The industry was horrified that she &#8216;fessed up to all that goes into those photos and the hours and people involved, but JLC wanted people to know she woke up looking like a regular person, too. I&#8217;ve always admired her for putting herself (and her rep in the industry) out there and taking the risk of the backlash.</p>
<p>Last year, I lost 7% body fat (and no weight, ladies&#8230;just exchanged fat for muscle) in a 5-day-a-week hour-long women&#8217;s bootcamp that I did for 4 months. Loved the results. For the first 2 weeks, I was exhausted and hurt everywhere. Well, I started a new job and I&#8217;m back to square one. What did I gain: the knowledge of what it takes to get there and the confidence to know that if I want to put in the time and effort, even I can get the results. Never had results like that from a trainer, either&#8230; The best part was my triglycerides dropping like a rock, since it&#8217;s a pre-indicator for diabetes, and my fasting glucose moderating. I have one adult-onset parent so it matters.</p>
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		<title>By: The Manolo Week in Review &#187; Manolo's Shoe Blog: Shoes, Fashion, Celebrity, and Manolo!</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Manolo Week in Review &#187; Manolo's Shoe Blog: Shoes, Fashion, Celebrity, and Manolo!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 17:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Francesca&#8230; Yeah, right, Geri. I have news for you: Even people with fast metabolisms and “skinny genes,” who stay thin with no effort, do not get toned with no effort. You are totally doing 1,000 crunches a day. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Francesca&#8230; Yeah, right, Geri. I have news for you: Even people with fast metabolisms and “skinny genes,” who stay thin with no effort, do not get toned with no effort. You are totally doing 1,000 crunches a day. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: bonnie-ann black</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2007/11/13/would-it-be-so-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-3148</link>
		<dc:creator>bonnie-ann black</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 20:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the scariest part about Star Jones was that she lost weight so fast, it really made her look ill -- and when she kept saying she hadn&#039;t had surgery, she was just dieting, all i could think was &quot;Cancer!&quot;  even after she &#039;fessed up, i think she looks like one of those egyptian mummies...  her gums are shrunk back around her teeth, her skin looks weird and pasty... i used to think she was attractive, now, she gives me the shudders.  she looks like a black joan rivers -- and i&#039;ve seen joan rivers.  in person.  terrifying.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the scariest part about Star Jones was that she lost weight so fast, it really made her look ill &#8212; and when she kept saying she hadn&#8217;t had surgery, she was just dieting, all i could think was &#8220;Cancer!&#8221;  even after she &#8216;fessed up, i think she looks like one of those egyptian mummies&#8230;  her gums are shrunk back around her teeth, her skin looks weird and pasty&#8230; i used to think she was attractive, now, she gives me the shudders.  she looks like a black joan rivers &#8212; and i&#8217;ve seen joan rivers.  in person.  terrifying.</p>
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		<title>By: AnneFran</title>
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		<dc:creator>AnneFran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 20:17:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jennie Garth in US Magazine this week talks about her Dancing With The Stars &quot;makeover.&quot;  It&#039;s pretty refreshing, as she talks about how much work she is doing and that is the reason she&#039;s lost weight.  Also, under on of the captions in her &quot;fatter&quot; phase, they have a quote from her something along the lines of &quot;I love my body, at any weight.  When I&#039;m chubbier, I love touching my love handles.&quot;   When asked about whose body she admires on the show, she mentions one of the dancers, but then counters, &quot;I have to remember she&#039;s 19!&quot;

So, she&#039;s not only honest about working really, really hard, but pretty body-positive if you ask me.  Such a better example compared to the Trista &quot;Thin by New Year&quot; article a few weeks ago.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jennie Garth in US Magazine this week talks about her Dancing With The Stars &#8220;makeover.&#8221;  It&#8217;s pretty refreshing, as she talks about how much work she is doing and that is the reason she&#8217;s lost weight.  Also, under on of the captions in her &#8220;fatter&#8221; phase, they have a quote from her something along the lines of &#8220;I love my body, at any weight.  When I&#8217;m chubbier, I love touching my love handles.&#8221;   When asked about whose body she admires on the show, she mentions one of the dancers, but then counters, &#8220;I have to remember she&#8217;s 19!&#8221;</p>
<p>So, she&#8217;s not only honest about working really, really hard, but pretty body-positive if you ask me.  Such a better example compared to the Trista &#8220;Thin by New Year&#8221; article a few weeks ago.</p>
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		<title>By: Bridey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bridey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 16:20:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If they admit they have to work to look like that, they could raise the issue that someday they may not be able or willing to work that hard and could become fat. Much better, career-prospects-wise, to pretend it&#039;s effortless and they couldn&#039;t be fat if they wanted to.

I also take mild exception to the idea, much expressed here in different ways, that if fat people &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; did all the &quot;right things,&quot; we&#039;d become thin people. I don&#039;t think the reason people are fat is that -- in this culture! -- they don&#039;t try hard enough to be thin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If they admit they have to work to look like that, they could raise the issue that someday they may not be able or willing to work that hard and could become fat. Much better, career-prospects-wise, to pretend it&#8217;s effortless and they couldn&#8217;t be fat if they wanted to.</p>
<p>I also take mild exception to the idea, much expressed here in different ways, that if fat people <i>really</i> did all the &#8220;right things,&#8221; we&#8217;d become thin people. I don&#8217;t think the reason people are fat is that &#8212; in this culture! &#8212; they don&#8217;t try hard enough to be thin.</p>
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		<title>By: shiloh</title>
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		<dc:creator>shiloh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:57:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those of the genetically blessed and fast metabolism are of a much smaller percentage than what the entertainment industry would have us believe.  They might not gain weight easily but it takes effort to be toned, and more effort to get that &#039;ripped&#039; look with the abs and things.

I wish more of these people would be truthful on the effort that goes into it.  Because it creates a stereotype that big people are lazy slobs who spend all their time eating and lolling in front of the TV, with the remote in one hand, soda within easy reach adn a bag of potato crisps on their laps.  

It&#039;s hard work, it takes time - that I don&#039;t have at the end of a long day, there are many simple but to me important pleasures to give up - good food, time with family and friends.  

There was this article I read of body weight as social status.  The &#039;effortlessly&#039; thin entertainer (usually a big lie) perpetuates the myth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those of the genetically blessed and fast metabolism are of a much smaller percentage than what the entertainment industry would have us believe.  They might not gain weight easily but it takes effort to be toned, and more effort to get that &#8216;ripped&#8217; look with the abs and things.</p>
<p>I wish more of these people would be truthful on the effort that goes into it.  Because it creates a stereotype that big people are lazy slobs who spend all their time eating and lolling in front of the TV, with the remote in one hand, soda within easy reach adn a bag of potato crisps on their laps.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard work, it takes time &#8211; that I don&#8217;t have at the end of a long day, there are many simple but to me important pleasures to give up &#8211; good food, time with family and friends.  </p>
<p>There was this article I read of body weight as social status.  The &#8216;effortlessly&#8217; thin entertainer (usually a big lie) perpetuates the myth.</p>
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		<title>By: queenofalot</title>
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		<dc:creator>queenofalot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:50:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that folks should be honest about how they are staying fit or losing weight. As someone who had gastric bypass only 4 month ago I don&#039;t like to discuss it because some people believe its the easy way out. I would like to go on record saying its not. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do both mentally and physically. However, I knew this going into it and still made the decision and eventhough I don&#039;t like to I tell people why I&#039;m losing weight I do it anyways. I&#039;ve had to relearn what and how to eat and start an exercise regimen. I will never have a Hollywood body but I&#039;ve already lost 75 pounds and already feel like a hottie. But this comes with sacrifices just like anyone else who diets or works out obsessively.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that folks should be honest about how they are staying fit or losing weight. As someone who had gastric bypass only 4 month ago I don&#8217;t like to discuss it because some people believe its the easy way out. I would like to go on record saying its not. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do both mentally and physically. However, I knew this going into it and still made the decision and eventhough I don&#8217;t like to I tell people why I&#8217;m losing weight I do it anyways. I&#8217;ve had to relearn what and how to eat and start an exercise regimen. I will never have a Hollywood body but I&#8217;ve already lost 75 pounds and already feel like a hottie. But this comes with sacrifices just like anyone else who diets or works out obsessively.</p>
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