Comments on: Stuck on Sexy

By: Marie

Marie — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 20:58:03 +0000

My sexy is somewhere between hippie goddess and angry punk rock girl who will mash your face in with her docs. Sort of somewhere in between kate moss, courtney love, and gwen stefani (if you’re going by American celebs… pah)

It involves long flowy print dresses, combat boots, smudged-up black eyeliner, and a pixie haircut.

And sometimes, more often than not, ripped up clothing spattered with paint and photography chemicals.

I wear what I like, onlookers be damned.

By: Sexy Girls

Sexy Girls — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 07:30:13 +0000

Hier sind auch sch

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Link List — Ayomeday.com — Sat, 12 Jan 2008 20:23:49 +0000

[…] from Manolo for the Big Girls writes about finding your own sexy. I love the Manolo, and so Plumcake is fabulous in my book […]

By: Modesto

Modesto — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 01:35:14 +0000

Ladies,

I’ll bet the farm that all of you are lovely, sexy, and a lot of fun in your own beautiful way. Thank you for your comments, and a wink and tip of my wool hat to all.

A Man

By: Mary

Mary — Thu, 10 Jan 2008 17:28:04 +0000

To Kimks:

“She had the Welcome Tattoo removed and has a spine”

Thank you to you and your friend! This has become my new goal for the year– starting now!

By: Rosemary

Rosemary — Wed, 09 Jan 2008 04:57:31 +0000

I’m still working on that sexy sort of thing. Maybe this year I can finally figure it out.

By: La Rêveuse

La Rêveuse — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 17:52:52 +0000

Once I had a guy in high school accuse me of flirting with him because I was, “batting my eyelashes.” My friends looked at him, and said, “Duh. She blinks a lot. If she’s flirting with you, she also flirts with me, the janitor, and the television.” (I have chronic dry-eye.)

Great post. Nice to hear many of us have figured it out. Now, how can we market this idea to teens and drive those stupid Bratz dolls off the shelves?

By: Gillybean

Gillybean — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 05:03:55 +0000

My goal for 2008 is to “Embrace my inner Marilyn” style-wise, and it’s working well for me so far. On Friday, I was shopping for the perfect dress for an office Year-end party and realized I’d not only gained a little weight, I’d gone from a size 6 to a 16 in just over a year. My confidence was at an all time low. So, instead of buying a dumpy black dress to match my dumpy black mood like I wanted to, I bought a gold halter dress and red lipstick. Best. Decision. Ever. I worked that dress and felt fabulous all night long.
I think sexy is all about confidence and like they say, Fake it ’til you make it.

By: Ladama

Ladama — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 03:39:14 +0000

You don’t have words for my sexy.

It’s about being quietly better dressed, more articulate, and more confident than anyone else in the room. It’s about a particular quality of stillness, the way you pause and look *through* someone, then catching their gaze and holding it a moment too long, as if to place them as only a cog in the general world order, but then reaffirm their significance.

It’s about loving yourself so well that you don’t need anyone, but you choose to love others. It’s about believing in your worth, then offering yourself, saying “you’re worthy.”

By: jen

jen — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 21:49:17 +0000

Sexy is confidence, walk into a restaurant with your best clothes on, head high, shoulders back you will turn every head in the place. Not only have I seen it done, I’ve done it myself!!