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	<title>Comments on: Elements of Style #2</title>
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		<title>By: Margo</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2009/11/04/elements-of-style-2/comment-page-1/#comment-216415</link>
		<dc:creator>Margo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 17:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Reading glossaries and dictionaries and specialist works for fun is perverse, and I am that kind of pervert. Ohh yeah, define that noun, baby. Define it goooood.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading glossaries and dictionaries and specialist works for fun is perverse, and I am that kind of pervert. Ohh yeah, define that noun, baby. Define it goooood.</p>
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		<title>By: Mona Peluda</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2009/11/04/elements-of-style-2/comment-page-1/#comment-216191</link>
		<dc:creator>Mona Peluda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This series is fantastic. I&#039;ve been working on my own style &#039;education&#039; for the past year or so, but this post is incredibly interesting, especially the section on linking current runway trends to a collective mood in society in general. 

Love it! More, please!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This series is fantastic. I&#8217;ve been working on my own style &#8216;education&#8217; for the past year or so, but this post is incredibly interesting, especially the section on linking current runway trends to a collective mood in society in general. </p>
<p>Love it! More, please!</p>
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		<title>By: Style Spy</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2009/11/04/elements-of-style-2/comment-page-1/#comment-216175</link>
		<dc:creator>Style Spy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The complaint I mostly get from my... shall we say, less successfully dressed friends is time.  Oh, I don&#039;t have time, oh, when you have kids you just don&#039;t have time for this sort of thing, Oh, I can&#039;t spend all my time just looking at fashion magazines.  Teleri is right, it&#039;s a skill set and developing it &lt;i&gt;does&lt;/i&gt; take time, and practice, and you have to prioritize how important it is for you.  But like many other skills -- riding a bike comes to mind -- once you&#039;ve learned it, you can pull that arrow out of the quiver at a moment&#039;s notice and use it.  The other complaint, of course, is money -- oh, I just don&#039;t have the money to spend on that sort of thing.  Right, fine.  Then don&#039;t complain when instead of buying that amazing cocktail dress that I pointed out to you that was on sale for a steal and you said, &quot;Oh, I don&#039;t have any use for that,&quot; you&#039;re running around like a headless chicken the night before your boss&#039;s daughter&#039;s wedding trying to find a dress that fits and you wind up spending three times more than that dress you had no use for because you&#039;re in a panic.  Or when you find a pair of pants that fits you like they were made for you and I say, &quot;Buy three of them,&quot; and you say, oh no, I can&#039;t spend that kind of money and then next year when you&#039;ve worn them to rags you have to go out and buy ANOTHER pair of pants that don&#039;t fit as well and also cost 10% more due to inflation.  I just don&#039;t get it.  People put money in savings accounts -- why is not your wardrobe a similar thing?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The complaint I mostly get from my&#8230; shall we say, less successfully dressed friends is time.  Oh, I don&#8217;t have time, oh, when you have kids you just don&#8217;t have time for this sort of thing, Oh, I can&#8217;t spend all my time just looking at fashion magazines.  Teleri is right, it&#8217;s a skill set and developing it <i>does</i> take time, and practice, and you have to prioritize how important it is for you.  But like many other skills &#8212; riding a bike comes to mind &#8212; once you&#8217;ve learned it, you can pull that arrow out of the quiver at a moment&#8217;s notice and use it.  The other complaint, of course, is money &#8212; oh, I just don&#8217;t have the money to spend on that sort of thing.  Right, fine.  Then don&#8217;t complain when instead of buying that amazing cocktail dress that I pointed out to you that was on sale for a steal and you said, &#8220;Oh, I don&#8217;t have any use for that,&#8221; you&#8217;re running around like a headless chicken the night before your boss&#8217;s daughter&#8217;s wedding trying to find a dress that fits and you wind up spending three times more than that dress you had no use for because you&#8217;re in a panic.  Or when you find a pair of pants that fits you like they were made for you and I say, &#8220;Buy three of them,&#8221; and you say, oh no, I can&#8217;t spend that kind of money and then next year when you&#8217;ve worn them to rags you have to go out and buy ANOTHER pair of pants that don&#8217;t fit as well and also cost 10% more due to inflation.  I just don&#8217;t get it.  People put money in savings accounts &#8212; why is not your wardrobe a similar thing?</p>
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		<title>By: lucylang</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2009/11/04/elements-of-style-2/comment-page-1/#comment-215906</link>
		<dc:creator>lucylang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Plumcake, you are kinda the best. Thanks so much for these tutorials! I&#039;ve spent a really long time basing my outfits off of fashion mags wondering why all the looks I created weren&#039;t really relevant to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Plumcake, you are kinda the best. Thanks so much for these tutorials! I&#8217;ve spent a really long time basing my outfits off of fashion mags wondering why all the looks I created weren&#8217;t really relevant to me.</p>
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		<title>By: TeleriB</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2009/11/04/elements-of-style-2/comment-page-1/#comment-215898</link>
		<dc:creator>TeleriB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;having to do homework for something as simple as getting dressed in the morning&lt;/i&gt;

THIS.

I&#039;m an amateur musician.  I don&#039;t expect to be able to play well without practicing.  And yet, it seemed colossally unfair to me that developing style took &lt;i&gt;work&lt;/i&gt;.  But it&#039;s not really unfair - it&#039;s a skill and like any skill, it takes work and practice.  If you have a natural talent for it, maybe you can skate by with less, but for the rest of us...

It also lets me place it, without a lot of baggage or freight, onto the list of skills I&#039;d like to learn.  I don&#039;t have time for all of them, so it&#039;s up to me to prioritize that list.  If &quot;learning style&quot; falls off the bottom of this season&#039;s &quot;to do&quot; list... well, it&#039;s hardly alone and I haven&#039;t failed as a (female) human being.  It&#039;s just like not learning the violin or Spanish cooking - &lt;i&gt;yet&lt;/i&gt;.  There is a time for every purpose under heaven, and all that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>having to do homework for something as simple as getting dressed in the morning</i></p>
<p>THIS.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m an amateur musician.  I don&#8217;t expect to be able to play well without practicing.  And yet, it seemed colossally unfair to me that developing style took <i>work</i>.  But it&#8217;s not really unfair &#8211; it&#8217;s a skill and like any skill, it takes work and practice.  If you have a natural talent for it, maybe you can skate by with less, but for the rest of us&#8230;</p>
<p>It also lets me place it, without a lot of baggage or freight, onto the list of skills I&#8217;d like to learn.  I don&#8217;t have time for all of them, so it&#8217;s up to me to prioritize that list.  If &#8220;learning style&#8221; falls off the bottom of this season&#8217;s &#8220;to do&#8221; list&#8230; well, it&#8217;s hardly alone and I haven&#8217;t failed as a (female) human being.  It&#8217;s just like not learning the violin or Spanish cooking &#8211; <i>yet</i>.  There is a time for every purpose under heaven, and all that.</p>
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		<title>By: Rose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 03:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I&#039;m hooked. What a great idea for a series.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I&#8217;m hooked. What a great idea for a series.</p>
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		<title>By: Constance</title>
		<link>http://manolobig.com/2009/11/04/elements-of-style-2/comment-page-1/#comment-215603</link>
		<dc:creator>Constance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 19:22:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An interesting post!  I am drawn to these quasi-military jackets, and now I understand why.  I really am hungry for power!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An interesting post!  I am drawn to these quasi-military jackets, and now I understand why.  I really am hungry for power!</p>
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