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Round Up of Awesome

Sunday, March 14th, 2010
By Twistie

Hey folks, it’s been a while since we’ve done a post talking about all the other great posts you might have missed concerning fat, EDs, etc. And so I thought I would share with the class.

First up isn’t really a blog since it’s the Boston Globe, but Miss Conduct has a fat-related question and a typically spot on answer to it today.

Over at Shapely Prose, snarkysmachine has a fabulous five-step guide to getting in touch with your inner Samuel L. Jackson to deal with general douchebaggery. Plummy doesn’t need this one, but I definitely needed a refresher course, and it’s great to see it out there.

This one isn’t so much this week as about a month ago, but any of you who missed The Fat Nutritionist’s column Eat food. Stuff you like. As much as you want really ought to go check it out.

Rachel at The F-Word promotes a Canadian campaign to combat unrealistic body images/ideals. Go. Read about it. Support it.

Oh, and this is just for Plummy in honor of the day:

A Pi Pie


There’s No Crying in Baseball!

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010
By Plumcake

From Why I Hate Fashion by Tanya Gold

“But I got so fat that even fashion wouldn’t pretend it could fix me. You can get so fat they don’t actually want you in their clothes. It is bad marketing; if very fat people wear their clothes, thinner ­people won’t buy them. There was no point rattling through the rails any more, seeking a satin redemption – nothing would fit my unfashionable bulk. I was ­consigned to M&S smock-land, across the River Styx. And it is lovely here; no heels, no stupid dresses-of-the-moment, certainly no thongs. Fashion has died for me, with an angry little hiss. Ah, peace.”

Okay, it’s time for Miss Plumcake to give an Important Life Lesson to all you budding writers out there, so take heed because I’m only going to say this once:

Don’t

be

pathetic.

Seriously, just don’t. The one exception is if you’re funny. Really funny. Funny to the point of inspiring incontinence, and not just in old people on cold days, because you know how they like to dribble. Then SOMETIMES you can get away with it, but even then, it’s better to err on the side of NOT sounding like you own fourteen cats and have an impressive collection of cobwebs in your lady garden. See,  professional media is not myspace, you’re not a 14 year old girl and no one gives a patent leather damn about your speshul speshul poignant pain.

Oh, uh, too harsh?

Let me explain.

I don’t care that this lady has decided fashion is eeeevil. I really don’t. I don’t care that she blames the accidental death of a sixteen year-old on her high heels –heels I’m sure Anna Wintour personally FORCED onto her feet because surely a young woman can’t make her own informed decisions– instead of just marking it up to a sad accident. I don’t care that she calls the models who appear in fashmags “anorexic children” because apparently it’s okay to judge people’s bodies when SHE’S doing the judging. I don’t care about any of that.

What I care about is crying in baseball.

You know how there is no crying in baseball? Well, I come from the newspaper biz and let me tell you, there’s no crying in journalism, either, and there’s ESPECIALLY no airing of your own depression/anxiety/unresolved abandonment issues from that one time in 1987 your dad missed your ballet recital.

Do you know how you deal with that when you’re a REAL journalist? Alcoholism and failed relationships, that’s how. None of this namby pamby moaning on the internet under the guise of journalism. No, it’s cirrhosis and child support and eyebags so big they’re being knocked-off in Chinatown, THE WAY THE LORD INTENDED IT.

I don’t even have the energy to talk about the problems with the bulk of her emo screed article, like how just because SHE doesn’t like something doesn’t make it evil (as opposed to when I don’t like something, because, to quote Lady Beauchamp: “I’m right because I’m always right and anyone who says I’m wrong is mad and wicked.”) and that for propagating the stereotype that big women are happier wearing tent dresses and shunning fashion she deserves to be taken behind the woodshed and beaten soundly by a pair of size 42 Christian Louboutin peep-toe glitter pumps (which you may then send to me) until she realizes that being frumpy is not the same as being superior, and caring about fashion is not the same as being owned by it.
ooooh sparkly
Fashion isn’t going to make you beautiful any more than eschewing it is going to make you interesting, ducklings. Remember that, and will someone please fix me a cocktail? Mama’s feeling a little piqued.


The Week (Month? Year?) in Fat Blogging

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009
By Francesca

Francesca has not done one of these in ages!

Reading that may entertain, provoke thought, or educate:

Shapely Prose (aka Kate Harding and Co.) has added some great bloggers in the past several months and is worth reading on a regular basis. Note:  lately they have been blogging about issues beyond fatness and looking at other qualities which make people “othered” in our society.

Big Fat Deal asks Do You Wear Horizontal Stripes? and Are Fat Jokes Unacceptable?

Fat Waitress blogs about the brouhaha caused by the photo allegedly of a fat passenger on an American Airlines flight, which has made its way around the internets. Also about the (now cancelled) requirement at Lincoln University requiring over-30-BMI students to lose weight or take a fitness class to graduate.

Two Zaftig Chicks looked incredible on Friday night (Francesca says: Get Sylvia’s dress (pictured) here!) and want to be famous.

Obesity Time Bomb muses about exposed fat bellies in advertising.

Fat Lot of Good (attitude in a 3XL!) asks why it’s OK for Weight Watchers to say something, but when Kate Moss says the same thing there is an uproar and asks that we support a new documentary film about fat women.


I Lost Four Pounds in Two Months, and So Can You

Saturday, March 28th, 2009
By Twistie

The fatosphere has been abuzz for the past couple days with a proposed new FTC rule. What has us excited about the actions of the Federal Trade Commission? The fact that they are proposing new guidelines be put in place for advertisers which, if implemented, would end the days when companies could make claims of incredible efficacy for their products followed by finer than fine print admitting ‘results not typical.’ Instead, if Subway continued to pay Jared Fogle, who lost 245 pounds through a regimine of exercise and Subway sandwiches, to hawk their sandwiches, they would have to de-emphasize the amount of weight he lost and admit that all they’re really selling is sandwiches and sides.

Imagine a world in which Kirstie Alley doesn’t do a new round of Jenny Craig commercials every five to seven years, lose a huge amount of weight, and then get her contract canceled when she starts gaining it all back yet again. Imagine a world in which dieters are not made to feel like complete failures when they don’t lose as much on Nutrisystem or Weight Watchers as their favorite washed-up one-time celebrity did.

Of course, there are naysayers. There are even naysayers in the fatosphere. Even I’m willing to admit this won’t be the end of annoying weight loss system/product advertising by a very long shot. After all, Weight Watchers’ campaign about ‘Hungry’ sabotaging your diet is running constantly. The diet culture is heavily ingrained in our world and the industry is far too profitable to expect an end to advertising simply because some stricter guidelines are put in place.

On the other hand, if I never have to hear Marie Osmond or Gillian Barbieri smug about all the ugly weight they lost eating expensive, freeze-dried, unappetizing cardboard meals, I’ll be a happier person. If I don’t ever have to hear a specific number of pounds Wynona loses with the ‘help’ of Alli, I won’t cry myself to sleep.

And if these systems and products have to say what a typical loss really is…I’m betting just a few more people will figure out that it might not be worth the expense, the side effects (such as Alli’s famous ‘anal leakage’), the potential humiliation (such as the weekly weigh-ins at Weight Watchers) to lose an extra pound or two over a typical result from cutting out desserts and adding an extra hour of exercise a week to your regular routine…which may or may not lose you any weight to begin with.

Your results may vary.


Some Hits and More Hits in the Big, Wide World

Sunday, March 22nd, 2009
By Twistie

There have been some important (and some amusing) things said in the Fatosphere over the last few days. Just in case you don’t keep up with some of the other fine blogs out there, I thought I’d share a few links with you.

If you or someone you know has taken weight-loss products recently, be certain to take a look at this list of products the FDA recently announced contain dangerous additives. Remember, if you’re going to try to lose weight, do your research before trying any program or product. Don’t be a victim of the next dangerous diet pill or supplement. Better yet, concentrate on eating delicious foods that are brimful of nutrients and forget what the scales say.

The brilliant and beautiful Kate Harding has posted a fabulous diatribe today on what plus-sized customers could really use in looking for a bathing suit. Some of the language is salty, so be warned if you’re faint of heart or reading it at work.

Well-Rounded Mama posted an interesting article about blood pressure cuff sizes during pregnancy. If you’re pregnant or considering adding to your family, please do yourself a favor and read it. This is important information that could save you from being treated for complications you don’t actually have.

Over at Big Fat Blog, the readers are gleefully taking apart a list posted at AskMen.com (which I will not link here, but it’s linked at Big Fat Blog if you really want to put yourself through it) on how to ’subtly’ tell your girlfriend/wife that she’s getting fat. Feel free to come up with a list in comments here on how to subtly tell your SO that he’s becoming a grade-A douchebag about your weight.

And last but not least, Fat But Pretty has a wonderful article on how she is navigating the minefield of trying to marry while fat. I think many of us can take a tip from her decision to just continue to be herself.

There are dozens of great blogs out there filled with information and support for those of us who are more generously proportioned. If you feel I’ve missed an important or particularly entertaining one, please pass on the links. I know I would love to read more.


Warning: Cooking At Home Makes You Fat

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009
By Twistie

For years now we’ve been told that one of the leading causes of the Obesity Epidemic (boogeda, boogeda!) is the way that Americans eat out too often. It’s been blamed on Mickey D’s and Col. Sanders (for those of us old enough to remember the good Col. who is now known as KFC), on MarieCallendar and your corner steak house and, well, really just about anyplace outside the home where you might get something to eat.

But now a new study informs us the problem is closer to home. For those not familiar with other work by Brian Wansink, who’s a marketing professor at Cornell University, he’s also the author of a recent comparison of how fat people and thin people eat at Chinese buffet restaurants that concluded fat people are fat…because they put napkins on their chests rather than their laps or sit at tables rather than in booths. Now he is putting the blame for American girth squarely on good old home cooking.

Yes, it seems the real culprit is The Joy of Cooking, that staple of American gastronomic literature. Wansink found that of eighteen recipes (chosen because they appear in every edition of the book from 1931 to the present), seventeen of them had risen in fat content, portion size, and calories. Some recipes had risen in calories by as much as forty per cent. The ones that included meat used more meat than when they started.

For instance, the Chicken Gumbo recipe in 1936 made 14 servings at 228 calories each. The same recipe in 2006 made 10 servings at 576 calories each. On the face of it, that sounds pretty dire, doesn’t it?

Reality, though, is a very different question. The study not only picks a miniscule number of recipes to compare (according to Amazon, the number of recipes in the 2006 edition of Joy of Cooking is a whopping 4,500, which makes 18 look prettyteensy potatoes), it does not take into consideration the way people actually eat or how that has changed over the same time period.

When Joy of Cooking was first published in 1931, people who had suffcient money to get what was considered adequate food ate a lot more courses per meal than we do now. Even when I was a child in the 1960’s, it was not unusual for dinner to consist of meat; a potato, rice, or noodle dish, often with a sauce or gravy; two vegetables or a vegetable side and a salad; bread or rolls and butter; dessert. That’s about six different foods being consumed in a single meal. Now most people eat from two to four things per meal. Meat, veggies, and grain or potato dish, with an option of dessert, which many people avoid or save up for special occasions. The human body still needs more or less the same amount of fuel to get through the day, but we expect to consume it in less dishes. It stands to reason that a few of these dishes would be served in larger portions.

Another aspect that isn’t being considered very carefully is the changes in society and availability of food over these same years. 1931? Yeah, that was the Great Depression when my father in law frequently had a single raw onion on white bread sandwich to see him through from the time he woke until dinner, when he got beans or macaroni and cheese sans any veggies or meat because his family couldn’t afford them. According to Wansink , the rise in calories in his handful of recipes started in the second half of the 1940’s…about the time that WWII rationing was being phased out and there was easier access to sugar, meat, and other high-calorie items. This is also a period in which huge advances were made in learning how to preserve and transport fragile foods across the country. Instead of seeing how the economy and science might be affecting what people were able to get,Wansink sees this, apparently, as the spur to restaurants increasing portion size in the 1970’s…some thirty years later.

What’s more, he seems to see it as a universally negative thing…something I’m sure my late father in law would have been happy to argue with him, despite the fact that he continued to consider those onion sandwiches a taste treat.
Wansink further seems to ignore the possibility that the original portion sizes were out of step with what and how people were actually eating. Anyone who has ever made a recipe according to instructions and wondered how anyone managed to get six dozen cookies out of it in the test kitchen knows what I’m talking about.

In short, Mr. Wansink has determined that eating out makes us fat and eating in makes us fat, and being fat makes us die. So where and how shall we eat, Mr. Wansink?

And by the way, I would consider that bowl of chicken gumbo a nice dinner in and of itself. I don’t think 576 calories is at all unreasonable for a one-dish meal, do you?

No, I didn’t think so.


Something to Talk About

Sunday, November 9th, 2008
By Twistie

Here are a few of the discussions of interest going on in the Fatosphere this week:

Well-Rounded Mama has a great discussion of plus-sized maternitywear, including some resources as well as advice for the generously-proportioned mom-to-be. After all, it may be news to the scientiffic community, but we’ve known for years that fat women have sex, too. Sometimes they even have babies from it.

The F-Word gives an opportunity for us to share our body-positive stories for an upcoming book. If you have a good story, drop Rachel a line and find out how to submit it. Our stories can help other girls and women come to love and appreciate their bodies instead of fighting them. Let’s all do what we can for them.

Feed Me has information on the results of a new study about body image, obesity, and eating disorders. Interesting reading, folks. What’s more, it shows us just how important Rachel’s post is.

And in conclusion, there’s a lively debate going on at Shapely Prose about what breed the new First Dog President-Elect Obama publicly promised his daughters should be. You, too, can weigh in on this important question of public pup policy.


Posts from around the fatosphere

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008
By Francesca

It’s been a while since we’ve visited other blogs for plus-size women. It is time to acknowledge them! Here are some recent posts Francesca has enjoyed.

Please read these after you go to vote! Do not procrastinate from the voting! 

A Celebration of Curves: Terrific video about “fat talk.”

Big Fat Deal blogs about all the things wrong with the article about fat women having more sex (she has read Francesca’s mind). There are lots of other great posts there – it’s a good blog. Francesca likes.

Diary of a Fat Teenager: Beautiful, beautiful photos of the blogger, a wise-beyond-her-years college student.

The F-Word: A prayer for Kevin Smith.

The Rotund: Fat derision in an unexpected place.

If you have a fat-positive blog and want us to visit a particular post, please include a link in the comments!

xoxo,

Francesca









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